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Support for you, not just them

What this is doing to you matters too. You can ask for help even if the other person does not.

Last reviewed: 13 August 2026

Support in your own right

You are allowed to ask for support in your own right.

You do not need their agreement or participation to discuss how the situation is affecting you.

What do you need most today?

Support where you live

Region-aware support routes

Choose your location so gambling support and young-person services match the correct country.

Gambling-specific support

National Gambling Helpline

Gambling-specific support for people in England. It does not replace emergency or urgent mental-health services.

Call 0808 8020 133

Young people

Childline

Childline offers general confidential support, including 1-to-1 chat and private messages. It is not a specialist gambling-treatment service.

Open Childline chat and messages

Specialist treatment and wider gambling services for England

These services may primarily support the person gambling. Some also provide advice or support to family and friends.

Clinical treatment

NHS gambling services

Specialist NHS services for gambling-related harms in England. Local referral routes vary.

Find NHS gambling support

Helpline and gambling-harm support

GamCare

Helpline services, online support and referral to other specialist services in Great Britain.

Visit GamCare

Specialist treatment

Gordon Moody

Structured specialist programmes, including residential treatment for severe gambling problems.

View Gordon Moody treatment

Peer support

Gamblers Anonymous

Peer-led meetings for people seeking support from others with lived experience of gambling problems.

Find a Gamblers Anonymous meeting

Support for the family member

These services focus on people affected by someone else's gambling, including family and peer support.

Peer support

Gam-Anon UK & Ireland

Meetings for partners, relatives and friends affected by another person's gambling. Check the current finder because arrangements can change.

Visit Gam-Anon UK & Ireland

Family peer support

GamFam

Structured peer support and signposting for people directly or indirectly affected by gambling harm.

Visit GamFam

Peer meetings may be online or in person. Use each service's current finder rather than relying on a saved schedule.

Your mental health

Stress, fear, loss of trust and financial pressure can affect your mental health. If the impact is severe or you need urgent support, use the region-aware routes on Immediate Help. For non-urgent support, a GP or appropriate local mental-health service can help you consider options.

Financial support

If bills, borrowing or debt are affected, seek free or qualified debt guidance. The Support & Help page provides regional gambling-support routes, while the shared-finances guide explains the distinction between personal debt, joint commitments, fraud and coercion.

Home does not feel safe

Safety comes before resolving the gambling issue.

If there are threats, coercion, violence or fear, use the safety guidance or Immediate Help rather than trying to finish a difficult conversation.

Bereavement support

Gambling with Lives

Specialist support for people bereaved by a gambling-related suicide. This is not a general gambling-treatment service.

Visit Gambling with Lives

Editorial source

NICE NG248 recommendations for families and people affected by another person's gambling